But be aware that if the Head Mistress approves your membership and you attend a play party, participation is mandatory.įirefighters! You gotta love 'em.

So, how does a gal get into Club Mistress? (Guys, forget it you'll never get in.) The best we can tell you is to poke around on MySpace. The club has no membership fee, phone number or address.

Meetings take place at local lesbian bars and strip clubs, and play parties happen at private homes, with everything organized well in advance of the event dates. There is a strict set of rules everyone must follow (including not revealing the identity of other club members or discussing club activities with outsiders). Club Mistress isn't a haphazard horndog fest, either. After all, the Mistresses who run the show (other participants are subservient 'Girls') are seasoned pros, not exhibitionists looking to entertain the testosterone set.

Given that Club Mistress is purely a women's play club (a strict 'no cameras, no men' rule is enforced at meetings and parties), it's not surprising that the members are so covert.